Sunday, March 27, 2011

My Connections to Play

Quotes: Children at Play


“When kids play, they remember. They may not be aware they are learning, but they sure
are aware they are having fun. When you have a good belly laugh with your siblings or
parents or friends, that stays with you. And the great thing is that is comes so naturally…
if we only let it.”

--Rebecca Krook, play facilitator for kids with disabilities

Play for young children is not recreation activity,... It is not leisure-time activity nor
escape activity.... Play is thinking time for young children. It is language time. Problem-
solving time. It is memory time, planning time, investigating time. It is organization-of-
ideas time, when the young child uses his mind and body and his social skills and all his
powers in response to the stimuli he has met.

--James L. Hymes, Jr., child development specialist,
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My Easy Baked Oven was one of my favorite toys that I played with all the time. I love to cook now I think it was because of my parent getting me my first Easy Baked Oven when I was 9 years old. I when through about two or three of them in my childhood. My second favorite toy that I played with a lot was my baby dolls. I just loved them I like the real size dolls. My mom always had a baby and I wanted to be just like her. Another toy I played with was my bike. It was pink and I like feeling the wind in my face when riding it.


I have 11 brothers and 3 sisters we all played together. Our house was the house that everyone came to play. We played hide and seek all summer long. We also play kick ball and soft ball all summer. I just love summer time because we played outdoor all day long. Another thing we played was house, school and church. We are a very close family and I do believe it is because our parents encourage us to play together and we prayed together also.


Play today is so different then when I was a child. Children today find going outdoors playing in the heat is a punishment. If they are not playing a video game or talking on a phone or playing with something that is making some kind of noise they are not playing. My hope for children today is to experience real imaginative play the way we did as children.


My play as I grew up help me understand real life. We played house all the time I sometimes was the mother who took care of the children and sometimes I was the big sister who had to cook dinner sometimes when mother was busy. I also play the teachers roll and I love playing the teacher. I always told my mother I was going to be a teacher when I grew up. My parents were very good about letting us grow using our imagination.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Relationship Reflections

Whatever they grow up to be, they are still our children, and the one most important of all the things we can give to them is unconditional love. Not a love that depends on anything at all except that they are our children.
                   ~Rosaleen Dickson
                                                                My Children

Rashida and Raymond

My childen Rashida and Raymond. I love them so much. They are both all grown up now and don't need me as much any more and I miss that a little bit. I am so proud to be their mother. They are great young grown ups with a lot of life ahead of them. I love Sunday's because they come over for Sunday dinner. Rashida is getting married this year to a very handsom young man name Aaron. She did a great job picking out that special person.
                                    My Daughter and Her Fiance

                                                                  Rashida and Aaron


I think dogs are the most amazing creatures; they give unconditional love.  For me they are the role model for being alive.  ~Gilda Radner

My dog RUSTY is my best friend he is always there for me even when I am not there for him. He give my that unconditional love all the time.

                                                                      My Pet

Rusty

My mom is a wonderful person and again I am so proud to be her daughter. She is a mother of 15 children 11 sons and 4 daughters. She trys to spread herself out for all of us and she dose a great job doing it. She will be 81 this year and still pretty much do everything she ever did. She is a very strong christin and I love her very much.
                                                                    MOM

                                                   My mom dancing with my nephew Will.
                                                                       Family

The family.  We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. 
                    ~Erma Bombeck
  

Mon and Kasey grand-daughter, Gianna great-grand-nice, and Kalye great-grand-daughter
Me and my sisters Marjorie, Frances, Me and Peggy
Our Annual Family 500 Race Five Of My Brothers and A Nephew
Our Annual Christmast Cookie Bake

Friends

A friend can tell you things you don't want to tell yourself.  ~Frances Ward Weller

A friend tell you when you do not look good in what you are wearing.  ~Alice Guynn

MY BEST FRIENDS
Without these peole and my dog Rusty in my life I would not be the person I am today. My relationship with them is mostly on good bases but sometimes we have ups and downs, but we love each other all the time. I cannot live without them.